In a candid new interview, Bryan Abasolo particulars residing a separate life from Rachel Lindsay earlier than their divorce.
Abasolo, 44, advised divorce coach Rene Garcia that there was a sample of “unhealthy communication” between himself and Lindsay, 39.
“We didn’t spend sufficient time with one another,” Absolo mentioned in a YouTube video, launched on Saturday, July 20. “I imply, in my estimation, we noticed what the opposite individual was doing within the relationship, primarily on Instagram, though we lived in the identical home.”
Within the 17-minute-long video, Abasolo mentioned how he reached out to Garcia in September 2023 for relationship recommendation — months earlier than submitting for divorce. However at that time, he and Lindsay have been already sleeping in separate rooms.
“I used to be serious about divorce as a result of I had already requested for a separation just a few months again. I used to be sleeping in a special bed room. We have been already going to marriage counseling,” Abasolo recalled, providing a shout out to their “completely phenomenal” therapist.
Whereas {couples} remedy initially “gave the impression to be working” for Abasolo and Lindasy, there was a significant shift of their relationship.
“As time went on, issues simply went proper again to the way in which they have been,” Abasolo mentioned, explaining how he determined to see a divorce coach. “I wanted somebody who had completely no loyalties to both of us or any kind of incentive within the end result. I wanted somebody to assist me course of my emotions, and I wanted somebody to truthfully give me a actuality examine on what was to return if I made a decision to maneuver ahead on this.”
Us Weekly confirmed in January that Abasolo had filed for divorce from Lindsay after 4 years of marriage. Court docket paperwork revealed that their date of separation was December 31, 2023, and he’s in search of a hefty quantity of spousal assist, explaining that he relocated his chiropractor enterprise from Miami to L.A. for Lindsay. As their divorce continues, issues have gotten messy between the estranged spouses.
Abasolo nabbed a significant win earlier this month when a choose ordered Lindsay to pay him over $13,200 a month in non permanent spousal assist. Court docket paperwork additionally revealed that Lindsay needed to pay $15,000 in lawyer’s charges and $5,000 for forensic knowledgeable bills.
The previous couple, who met and received engaged on The Bachelorette in 2017, didn’t signal a prenup earlier than their 2019 nuptials.
“The place I’m in now financially … is completely totally different than after I received married. We have been extra stage, and I wasn’t residing in California,” Lindsay defined on the “Hidden Gems With Natasha Parker” podcast final month. “We weren’t on the identical web page with prenups, and I didn’t need it to be a much bigger subject. So, we didn’t have one. Hindsight is 20/20, I might have executed it 1721680101.”